When to Call Men – Dating Rules for Women
There’s been a lot of chit chat in recent years about calling protocol for dating women. In other words, when should we call or email the man we’re seeing. Some advice leans towards keeping in constant contact with a man, while others suggest we should sit patiently and wait for him to make the move. It’s complicated and through my own experiences with men I’ve come to discover that it’s actually relevant. I’ve made some mistakes in the past when it comes to contacting the man I’ve been dating, and it’s not always turned out the way I hoped.
At some point, most of us have been in a similar position. We’ve had a great date with a promising bachelor and days later, he still hasn’t called or emailed. We felt the connection, and as the hours slip by without contact, we begin to wonder whether he did or not. When I’ve been in this situation, my first instinct has always been to get in touch with him. It’s what I did for years when I found myself in this position. I finally realized that it wasn’t the right approach. More often than not I’d leave him a message on his voicemail, and he’d call back telling me he was “busy with work” or “something had come up.”
Dating is all about creating the right dynamic. That dynamic is determined not just by your in person time with someone, but the way you communicate via the phone, email or text is vitally important too.
I learned exactly how to handle all the calling rules. It made a huge difference in how I interacted with men. It also helped me because I finally understood how men view calls and emails.
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Why Would An Ex Boyfriend Call When He Has a New Girlfriend?
Susan writes: My boyfriend and I broke up over 3 years ago and soon after he started dating someone new. Over the past couple of months he’s started calling a lot and texting me. He says he misses me and he feels depressed without me. He’s still with this other woman so why is he contacting me? Should I be calling him back or not? I’m still crazy about him even after all this time.
My response: At first glance I’d say that your ex is wishing he wasn’t your ex anymore. He’s obviously still got some very strong feelings for you but it’s difficult to say whether it’s because he genuinely cares or he’s going through a rough time with his current girlfriend and is missing certain qualities you had that maybe she doesn’t. For some men it’s just ego driving them to call an ex because they want to feel that they’re still desirable to someone other than the woman they’re with. It’s not an easy situation. Tread carefully, you don’t want to get your hopes up only to discover he’s playing you.
How Can I Get My Boyfriend to Call and Text Me More Often?
Tanya asks: My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. He’s great but it drives me batty how he never calls or texts. I bring it up and then we argue. Is there a way to get him to call that doesn’t involve me getting mad and us fighting?
My response: Tanya, this is by far one of the most common questions women have when it comes to their men. Why is it that men don’t do the calling as much as we do? Typically it’s because we’ve taken on the role of primary caller from the get go. We call him more and he’ll call less. You can change that dynamic by not calling him as much. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just simply stop calling him. He’ll get the hint and start calling when he doesn’t hear from you.
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